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Domestic Duties

Friday, 03 October, 2008

Maybe the best way to get my hubby aroused is to do housework. It used to be if I was cooking when he came in, I could see a flicker of interest, but now I cook so often he's become blase about it. Should I be vacuuming when he gets in, or even better washing the floor he can barely contain himself, of course he always manages to hold himself in check.

What is it about my man that he can wank to the filthiest porn, but to have sex with me missionary position is about the limit. He used to enjoy dirtier sex, but now says he just likes to come, he's not really bothered how he gets there, just as quickly as possible.

I rarely instigate sex anymore as I almost always get knocked back, but last night, I thought he might be up for some, and although he was soft, I went down on him, he came quickly and then straight to sleep. I sometimes get pissed off that he does not reciprocate, but last night was OK, I enjoyed doing it, and even more that I had instigated it and that it was not our 'usual' time. (mornings).

I really fancy a drink, I rarely have anything because as my inhibitions loosen I become a sexual predator and feel like ripping his clothes off to get started. He hates that I become so desperate, hence I rarely drink. There not much in to have either, there are some spirits, but no mixers, and a bottle of champagne, which I may well chill and open.

Categories: Relationship, Sex